I got a Virgin ?

Okay so im 15 in the 9th grade, and im in love. I know people say its just puppy love but its the real thing. All the times I told guys in the past that I loved them, well I was wrong. And I know for sure I want to spend the rest of my life with him. I say I love you in a whole nother way...and now it mean a whole new meaning to me. I kinda thought about giving myself to him but I take that very seriously...He is also a virgin but I dont know if he is willing to take that step yet so I dont want to force him into it. How can I figure out if he is ready? He jokes about it and I know he is playing but, wouldnt that mean he at least thought about it?