Big earring back lodged in my earr helpp!!?

so ive had this particular earring in for about a month. its a regular diamond with one of those real big backs in it..... like thiss..... http://www.vitabeads.com/photos/060330%2000.JPG ........ its on of those, and its lodged completely in my ear, cept for the little part on the small end. so like 90% is in my ear.. i realized this when i looked and the earring was pushed forward in the front and saw that this whole big thing is in my ear. i want to get it out cuz i dont want it to get stuck in there with the blood and such, but i dont want it to hurt which it obviously will looking athe size of it. i cant believe it managed to get stuck in my ear, ad the way i look at it, i have 2 options, one try to ice it, and push it out from the front, but ice may not work in numbing it so i could go to the emergency room right??? would they numb it!! jesus i wish i never pierced my ear, HELLP ME!!